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I think that opinions change from time to time and from one person in authority to another person in authority. Last Tuesday, LDS apostle M. Russell Ballard used
Brigham Young University devotional address to, (among other things), address, where gay Mormons fit in the faith.
I know Elder Oaks grandson. I think that while both have some deep differences of opinion, they, each in their own right are good men. Yes, Apostles have opinions as well as revelations. One can not be challenged while the other can.
In Tuesday’s devotional, Apostle M. Russell said in part, " “I am a general authority but that doesn’t make me an authority in general, ”“I worry that members expect too much from their leaders and teachers, expecting them to be experts [in areas and topics] well beyond their expertise.” "“ If you have a question that requires an expert, please take the time to find an expert to help you.”
On LGBT Mormons • Any member has a place in God’s kingdom. It may be difficult sometimes for gay Latter-day Saints to see “where you fit in the Lord’s church but you do.”
“Mormon leaders, along with the rank and file, need to “listen to and understand what LGBT members are feeling and experiencing”.
"We must do better than we have in the past until all feel they have a spiritual home … a place to worship and serve the Lord.”
" On LGBT civil rights • The best approach is to protect “core rights” of all people and then find “reasonable compromises in other areas where rights conflict.”
“The LDS Church successfully lobbied for Utah’s 2015 law protecting LGBT individuals from housing and job discrimination while safeguarding some religious libertie”
. “Earlier this year, the Utah-based faith filed legal papers backing a Colorado baker who refused on religious grounds to make a cake for a same-sex wedding”.
" The church strongly condemns “bullying or harassment of any kind.”
"Every person is a child of God and deserves to be treated with kindness and civility. That’s why the church supported August’s LoveLoud concert in Orem, to send a “strong message that LGBT people should never be mistreated.”
" All humans are “fallible, flawed.”
“At some point in your own life, no father, no mother, no children, no professor, no student, no missionary or mission president is perfect”.
"The only real solution … is to forgive and love one another.”
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