Well I hope you maintain a level of dignity that some of the motab peeps don't seem to want to do. I have a cousin who used to be married to some dude that sang in the choir and let's just say I wasn't impressed with his efforts as a husband, father, etc.
Sorry man... it's like these 3rd and fourth generation mormons in Utah just aren't getting it. Nothing special about being lds in utah, no standard to uphold, no integrity, etc. I don't mean to paint a broad brush over everyone but there is way too much nonsense... it's unacceptable.