You have just described the frustration, confusion, disappointment, bewilderment that most BYU fans feel through out the world.
We express our mind boggling confused thought process in many different ways putting many of the fan base at odds with each other.
We see vacant seats at home in the stadium that always use to be filled. We see TV ratings drop. Some of us see the sky falling and the coming end of the world.
I suggest that we hang tight. Don't jump ship. Don't throw the baby out with the wash.
It's taking a long time, (too long), for our coaches to figure things out. Never since the middle 50's have we been ranked so low in virtually all areas of the football game. We have had new coaches before. We have had injuries before, but this season seams to be worse than any other season since the middle 1950's.
My guess is, things will get figured out by the end of this season. Changes in the way we use to do things that use to work, but no longer does work, will be changed. We will be back to as good as before, if not better, by game time next season. Our recruiting will be much better.
Once things get figured out, I believe that our patience will be worth the the time it took to let our coaching staff get those things figured out.
Once the coaches, the AD, and the Brethern do get things figured out, we will have the very best coaching staff that we can get, considering the money we pay, along with the Honor Code and other
restrictions, i.e. HC must be a member of the LDS Church in good standing.