Glen,
I really like your post regarding the Church’s stand on the LGBT issue.
I am also happy that we are having so much conversation about it. The more conversation about it, the more likely the GA’s will notice. The more they notice, the more likely they will be open for new inspiration and a willingness to make adjustments in procedure. (Not doctrine, but procedure adjustments) They can change procedure, without changing doctrine.
Many, many, many studies has shown that world wide, including, but not limited to the USA, approximately 10% of all of us are born with G/L tendency. Some more than others. More controllable more than others.
Since I have 29 grandchildren and 12 great grandchildren, that means that about 4 of them were probably born G/L.
They would never confess to me or to their parents or to their brothers and sisters, aunts, uncles or even closest friends that all believe so deeply in the truthfulness of the Gospel.
None of the four liked dating. But to please the family and the Church, they occasionally did but rarely with the same person more than a few times.
I am sure that they feel guilt. The Bible says that in as much as ye have adultly in your heart, you have already committed adultly. That carries over into all sins.
I could point out those in my family, but I won’t, the four that probably has that stigma.
None of them married until late in life. (30’s) I believe they did it so they would not be identified or exposed to other members of the Church and family that has all of the same Church values. My heart goes out to the fish family on this board.
One that I expect, still lives at home. He never dates. He doesn’t want to. The others eventually married and had at least one child.
I wonder how we heterosexual men would feel or handle the situation if we were forced to have sex with another man. I think that I would die vomiting before I stopped vomiting.
How can we expect a G/L to feel any different having sex with someone that they did not
feel natural with.
As a heterosexual, I think that I would consider, suicide before I could go to bed with another man. How can we expect it to be different for G/L community. In fact, far too many have already committed suicide.
Without changing doctrine, we need a way to change procedure for those not fortunate to be born straight like us. I don’t know how it can be, but there are enough people a lot smarter than I that can figure out a way if indeed there is a will.